In the case of such a difficult moment for human beings, this is a question that leads us to a deep reflection on our decision and our attitudes. The farewell ritual consists of several moments, during and after a person’s death. Among them is the wake; process in which a vigil is held and which precedes the farewell tribute and burial or cremation. Present in the most diverse cultures and religions, the wake involves a mix of feelings ranging from despair, pain, memories, intense appreciation of life and care for those we love and who are still among us physically, in addition to the will intense to be close until the last moment. As with any ritual, the farewell phases are important processes for the assimilation of mourning and each person, regardless of their level of education, age, culture or religion, assimilates this moment in their own way, in their own way and at their own time. Attending the wake in person is a personal choice. However, often, distance, time and health complications prevent participation in this very important moment for the grieving process, assimilation of the loss and closure of this cycle. The culture of being present at farewells is a great demonstration of affection and affection; not only to praise the life story that is coming to an end at this moment, but also, for those who need our support. It is the opportunity we have to share memories, moments, as well as to offer our embrace, our consideration and, many times, our silence. A global way to expand the possibility of this meeting and this experience, anywhere in the world, is through online transmissions of wakes, a reality that keeps alive the essence of this intimate farewell occasion and makes this connection between family and friends possible. Being physically or virtually present at the farewells allows us to pay the last tribute, whether by being there and participating intensely, whether through our prayers, sending flowers or virtual messages and thus enabling the reception, comfort and solidarity for those family members who at this moment they share the same pain. Thus, each experience of loss and homage must have an individualized look. It is up to each person to conduct this ritual according to their desire and feeling, in their own time and conditions. Each situation, desire and actions at this moment need to be affectionately respected. In this delicate moment, it is important to remember that the people involved need our affection and our consideration, either by being present, or in thoughts or prayers.

Online wake and the possibilities of hosting

Thinking about assisting and welcoming distant family members or those unable to attend the farewell, Adiaŭ delivers a complete solution so that, from anywhere in the world, people can accompany and pay their last respects, whether offering a wreath of flowers or sending messages of affection, solidarity and comfort for the family members. Through a totally secure platform, hundreds of cemeteries, crematoria and funeral homes already connect people to their family and friends through technology, promoting a completely online experience. If you represent a company in the funeral sector, visit Clima ao Vivo and learn about the complete solution for live wakes. *Article written by Beatriz Regina Brixner – Adiaŭ Team

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